Juergh, having wedding angst. I'm getting hives just thinking about it. Okay well maybe the hives are because it's allergy season. I had a really intense conversation with boy last night about what we should do and I almost had a freak-out attack. Anyway the upshot is that the current thinking is just have a paper-signing with the immediate fambly on a morning at the end of this summer, and a big picnic everyone can come to in the afternoon. Standing up on a stage saying things that make me want to snicker I can't handle. Frisbee I can handle. Anyway. Once that got suggested I managed to relax a bit, so uh, it's totally got my vote. I'll see what the parents think. Or maybe I'll just tell them what's happening. Well mom already knows that she's not in for dress-shopping with me anyway. Heh. Maybe I'll get some special wedding socks or something.